Have you ever asked yourself this question, “What turns you on?” Maybe your partner has asked you the same question? Knowing the answer is really important in order to become aroused sexually and produce adequate, vaginal lubrication.
A not so surprising number of women report never having experienced an orgasm or during most sexual interactions never reaching a climax every time. How sad 🙁 Life is too short!
One of the greatest gifts we’ve ever been given- the opportunity to experience sexual satisfaction in a loving relationship. Maybe you want that for yourself and for your relationship, but are unsure of where to start.
It’s worth taking the time to explore what touch feels good to you, what thoughts are going through your head, what are you seeing visually, what are you hearing, and how are you feeling toward yourself and toward your partner when you become sexually aroused?
Maybe you feel a little embarrassed if you don’t know the answer to those questions. Don’t be! Simply take the time to discover this for yourself.
It’s recommended that you masturbate on your own, in private first. You can either use your hands or a sex toy to help explore what feels good. At first you may feel silly, but brush those feelings aside and discover! It’s just you in the room anyway!
Maybe later on you can show and gently coach your partner on what spots and touches help you climax. Good sex is all about vulnerability anyway, so you should be able to share in safe and loving relationship.
TIP: He may even find it sexy to watch you pleasure yourself 😉 Remember, guys are visually aroused!