Sexual Attraction: Keep Him Attracted: Get Into It!

Sexual Attraction: Keep Him Attracted: Get Into It!

Quick tips on how to keep up your sexual attraction – from a guy’s perspective.

Today’s tip: I’ll tell you a secret: half of a woman’s continued sexual attraction is not related to how she looks or the clothes she’s wearing or anything like that. Truly half of it is how INTO IT she is! Ask yourself an honest question, say, “Self, when I’m having sex, am I excited – and visibly (and audibly) showing that to Hubby Bubby?” It’s easy to get into a sexy-time rut in marriage. You find something that works and keep doing it that way. But I’ll bet when you first got together with HB, YOU DID ALL SORTS OF CRAZY STUFF!  Maybe you said all sorts of crazy stuff too!

So when you’re getting ready for the next sex fest, make it an adventure! Try three or four different positions! Get a new toy! (we have several reviews with solid suggestions on those and how to introduce that into the bedroom) But most of all, bring back that first-time excitement and fire! If you’re more into it

Pro Tip: It may be awkward, but ask him straight up: “What is one of the things you’ve been wanting to do during sex? I want to expand our boundaries!” If it’s something you’re comfortable with trying and is still something that is within your marriage boundaries (e.g. not “Well I’ve been wanting to have a threesome with our neighbor Tiffany.”) go for it! Either way, open communication like this well help you take your sex game to the next level!

Keep Him Attracted: Let’s Get Physical!

Keep Him Attracted: Let’s Get Physical!

Quick tips on how to keep him attracted sexually – from a guy’s perspective.

Today’s tip: Guys are physically motivated (duh!)  We also like it when you match our sexual advances with your own.  It’s no fun always being the one who is doing the chasing.  So today, give him a big bear hug, a big deep long kiss, and while you’re still kissing, use both hands, grab onto his butt and hold on tight!

It may seem like a simple little thing to just kiss your man and grab his butt, but sometimes it’s easy to lose sight of the simple things in long relationships.  So today, remind yourself to keep the physical element outside of the bedroom alive in your relationship – on a daily basis.

Pro tip: If it’s been a while since you Frenched, throw just a little tongue in there to bring it to the next level!  Hubby Bubby will leave for work all saucy!

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Women and Sexuality came to mind’s eye after a few embarrassing incidents surrounding sexuality. Soon after these events unfolded, there was a realization that there are limited websites that allow women to explore possible questions they may have regarding sexuality, review sexual products, and gain reputable knowledge, without being exposed to indecent content . Our goal is to provide a safe and decent platform to present relevant sexuality topics, product reviews and discussion to normalize experiences for women. We hope this space is a comfortable place to gain insight and knowledge to understand female sexuality and increase confidence in sexual matters!

Sexuality definition according to Merriam-Webster:

“the sexual habits and desires of a person

Full Definition of SEXUALITY:

:  the quality or state of being sexual:
a :  the condition of having sex
b :  sexual activity”